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About the bank thing. Here's another way to look at it: If this was NOT the ex OW, and you had all the same info, what would you do???


my thought as well...but then even if you would tell (with her not being the ow) would it still be believed that you didn't do it just to crush her...

if you do nothing..she will eventually get caught...??

if you do tell and she is this type of person...you may be opening yourself up to a big mess..never know what she may do to retaliate.

LL