Sorry to hear about your H's job, but it's nice that he's saying some positive things. You are right--H needs encouragement like crazy now. Smart girl!
My mom told me something about a year ago that I will never forget. It's true for you too: ultimately, you are infinitely more powerful than OW. You are the mother of his children, you have the history, you are intelligent and know him well. You are strong and have the power to change the dynamics in your R.
I hope your weekend is nice despite the uncertainties swirling all around you. Try to stay focused on solutions rather than fears. I'm rooting for you!
