Focusing on the future together.

[sage]

We know that one of our major issues is that my H has a hard time communicating with me so we're looking into ways that will make it easier for him to do so. I am understanding more and more (with help of C actually) what makes it hard for him to speak with me so I am working on that. He also has ways that make it easier for him to tell me things like this BB, writing emails, letters etc and we're looking into ways we can bring up issues with each other like that so it will be more comfortable for him.

Calystra -- I'm so psyched for all the progress you guys have made! I'd love it if you could find time to share what you're learning about communicating with H.

Sage