The officer called me back. He was actually apologetic, saying that I was in a terrible situation. He drove past the house yesterday, and saw how she is in my face. He took my statement, then continued to sympathize with me for about 20 minutes. He just said that I have to be very careful with this woman, now, as we can see that she will stoop as low as possible to make life difficult for me; to stay as far away as I can or turn my back on her if she shows up, to eliminate the chance of any false claims. He even said that he could understand if I wanted to kick her a$$, but he would not want to see me get myself in trouble. He also said that he knows how this ruins marriages, but to remember that both of them were in it; that even if H was influenced, that he is a grown man, able to make his own choices, and that things happen for a reason, even if we can't see it until years later.
It was pretty amazing to have this officer speak to me so kindly. He was very upset by the whole thing, and kept telling me that he knows how difficult it must be for me. So, no harm, no foul. I hope that he sends her a report that spells out what a ___ she really is.
****** On another note, I called my bff on the way home from work. Her mom died at 2pm today. She is still reeling, but said she actually has a sense of peace, knowing that she went to a better place, away from the pain. She just kept saying that her mom was too good to have to go through all of this. She is so right; I know of others who are more deserving of such a fate.
