I have dropped the issue of the OW completely. I dont call him unless necessary. But Ive decided now after tonight (we are meeting to discuss finances) I will not call him at all and I wont answer his calls on every 3rd call. I have been hanging out with the few friends I have around here a lot lately. He's very inquisitive of what Im doing. I tend to make up things to make him jealous. I have Divorce Remedy and I read the whole book in one sitting. I am going to do the best I can but its so hard. Ive been doing well with not calling him and I havent rode by his apt any the last few days. Im getting there slowly but surely I have placed it all in God's hands and whatever happens is bc that is the way God wants it Im just going to have to accept that. Thanks for the advice. Ill vent on here and keep you posted as to what happens tonight.
M-21 H-24 Separation 08-01-07 No Kids Married 3 yrs (Sept 18) Together 5 yrs