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[lester]

I know what you mean. My wife has also made crude/cruel comments as well which is where this seems to fit. I think it's their way of dealing with the guilt. Let me explain, the WS seems to think that if they can provoke you and you get upset then it validates what they are doing. Like everything WAS's do it's pure rubbish and should do your best to ignore. Best to say "yeah okay" and then go for a walk or something similar.