So if you start to detach how do you get back to where you are. Doesn't that just make is easier to S forever? I am struggling with this right now so I thought maybe you could help.
Corina - that is good that you have done your 180 and that he is coming over on Monday. Would you usually go to work at that time? If not, then I suggest maybe not doing it. I did not answer some phone calls this weekend from my H and he was very angry with me. I think he thought I was playing games etc. Really I did not want to talk to him but he knows I always answer the phone so it backfired. Lesson learned. Just remember to think through your 180's as I have learned the hard way. Things seem to be fine now but I know he was pissed the beginning of the week. I hope everything goes well on Monday
