Just caught up on your thread. Sounds like you're going through what I went through a couple of months ago. A return and then a leave again.

It sucks.

I blamed myself too, for putting too much pressure.

You can't do that.

My H would have left regardless. I'm convinced. It wouldn't have mattered if I did everything perfectly according to the DB manual.

He would have left again.

He wasn't ready yet, and yours isn't either.

It gets easier knowing they are back with OW. Still sucks, but it does get easier.

hang in there.

BFM


There is only one person who could ever make you happy, and that person is you.
David Burns, Intimate Connections