The common thread on this board for me is that my H most closely resembles your 2BX, Corri's X and Fearless' X. It's starting to feel like all the smart girls made the right decision.
In what way do you think they resemble each other? They all seem very different to me except for the fact that your H and my 2bx are both inclined towards black moods and alcohol dependency.
"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver