Pamar,

I agree with my3sons if it goes back and forth then she won't feel pressure and you both will probably be in a more comfortable situation. I hadn't thought about it but I think I'm going to do the same thing; makes sense to me.

H 30 (me)
W 28
Married 9 yrs
2 children
EA found out on 7/5/07
ILYBNILWY 8/25/07
The unexamined life is not worth living -Socrates