Ok Psch I am going to try to decipher that for you and I think it means that she does not want to move her stuff out yet. She is saying there is no rush for her to be getting her things out of your place. That is what I take it to me so I think this could be a good sign myself.

I think that if the D is not brought up on Sunday then you should just do option #3. I mean you still have plenty of time and her moving out is fairly new. My MC said it takes 6-8 weeks for the person that moved out to actual start to miss the person they left. For the first month or so there is nothing but relief and that is why they tend to distance themselves so much. They may not at first but then they slowly do and then they begin to come back once that 6-8 weeks has passed. After that relief feeling is gone and they actually start to really think about what happened and what is going to happen is when we really need to have the most patience. I think that for Sunday you should just go with the flow and give her some time and space. I would not mention the OM at all just in case there really is nothing there and that could just make her upset and you could lose some of the ground you have gained.

Does that make sense? I know that is going to be tough but remember I am here for you. And I will definitely be sending you happy helpful vibes on Sunday. Hang in there I know you can do it.


Lissie