I'm so glad to hear about your convo! And so good about you saying you don't want the old marriage anymore! That's exactly what I told my H. I think that really changes things. They are totally under the assumption that we want everything how it was, but that wasn't good either. We may have been content, but we weren't "happy". anyways, I wasn't.
Very good steps!
I think your H is telling you to initiate too. If he doesn't bring up going on in a few weeks, I think you should do it and be excited about it....make some really cool plans or something and don't be afraid of rejection (don't let him see you upset if he said no).
have a wonderful weekend! I'll be praying for you!
Me 33 H 34 S9 S3 M 6 yrs (2gether 11 yrs) EA/PA 1/2006 DB 5/2006 H wants D 6/2006 H wants ME 8/2006 H "said" PA/EA over 8/2006 H erased OW off phone! 2/2007
"It is far better 2 choose humility & change oneself, than 2 wait in vain trying 2 chang someone else."