You are all right... I slipped. I was trying to manipulate things into the way I wanted them.
I did do those things because I wanted to.. actually the D's laundry was getting on my nerves and instead of griping at her (she usually folds the girls laundry and puts it away) I figured I'd take care of it. As for the other laundry... I always do that. No difference. Maybe I should stop (180).
The bathroom is one I admit I did for her. Won't happen again because it didn't work.
Nugget... your words are probably the harshest yet truest words I've read. That's the kind of smacking around I needed.
I'm trying to figure out the right balance of GAL and being friendly with her, but I keep giving into the fact that she has a life and I don't.
NO MORE!!!
She did text me this morning and told me to have a wonderful day. I responded for her to do the same.
We talked this afternoon, mostly about L stuff and what time I am going out tonight etc. She makes it out like she has plans. Just something I have to put out of my mind.