H felt that always asking me to come to his house was unfair-- thus the explaination from me that it wasn't the weekend that was unfair it was the treating me like sh!t during the week and like a girl friend on the weekends that was unfair-- so he stopped asking me over.
He never says yes to me asking him to my house. So ergo the stopping of the intamacy. He also never gives hugs to begin with. I was lucky to get a peck on the check when he picked me up at the airport last month.