I stayed cool. Acted as if. We had a relaxed time. Were both tired and chilled on the couch. Talked about what's going on in the Bar and especially about one customer, who seems to become a bit strange - talking badly about each of us to the other one... Then watched TV for a while... under the same blanket.... no cuddling and snuggling. But close anyway. Did't really dare looking at each other while doing so.
Tis funny, since we split up and he moved out, we seem to be able to communicate a lot better. No pressure from my side, just trying to DETACH. Looking nice, making jokes while we're together...
And since a few days even he got a little more reasonable with his drinking habits.....maybe due to the fact that he is taking driving lessons these days.... will see....
I won't say anything about the bill. Rather wait until the next one... He himself said to me last week when I couldnt help being pissed of coz OW was calling while I was sitting next that it would be very unreasonable to start another relationship just after breaking up. And the "good" news on top: she seems to be a single Mom - just like me..... wants him to meet her son. And it seems she's pressurizing him with that one. As far as I know him he is VERY responsible in kids involved in relationships. As long as he is not sure if he REALLY wants to pick up a R with her he will keep on refusing to meet the boy.
And he knows that picking up an R with her would mean we could NO longer work together.
So - I guess detaching and showing him that there is no rush for anything and that I accept his decision of separating is the best thing to do these days. Just need to stay cool when he keeps on touching me and looking at me as if we never split up.... He still cares a lot - I can feel that.... Geee...... THANKS to you all for now! It feels soooo good to get your support!!
