Also need some advice on the W's bday card. Want to write a poem in it along the lines:
You ask me why I love you, I only know I do, You ask me why I married you, Because of the love so true, We have two beautiful children, that fill our hearts with pride, For that I love you dearly and want you by my side.
It's how I feel about her, but don;t want to do anything that will turn her against me further. Lots of advice would be appreciated.