Being Me, are there times now when your H actually is expressive or exhibiting the behaviours you like? If so, what is happening at those times. Is there anything that can be repeated? Is there anything you are doing to make that happen? There must be times when you and he do feel some closeness, even for a few minutes. Think about those times and try and figure out what is going right then. When things are working there can be some good clues to apply to when things arent' working, if that makes sense. Take care.
