The prognosis after an affair is not grim, and those who have strayed have not lost all their value. The sadder but wiser infidel may be both more careful and more grateful in the end."
This is so true and I've said this to my W not quite in that way but that it'd be hard and we can have an even better marriage. That was like 3 weeks ago. I don't think she's ready to believe it yet. Maybe she will maybe not. I think an affair is a test of everyone. It's a test of the LBS's metal and a test of the infidel's ability to own their mistakes and work to be a better person. It's hard on both parties but it truly is the only way to live. "An unexamined life is not worth living" - Socrates
H 30 (me) W 28 Married 9 yrs 2 children EA found out on 7/5/07 ILYBNILWY 8/25/07 The unexamined life is not worth living -Socrates
