Growing up is hard to do

[princess_nic]

I know I wasn't the perfect W. I know I played a significant role in him leaving the very first time. But I tried to fix all that was wrong. And in large part, I did. Nobody is perfect. It just sucks that these guys aren't mature enough to be okay with that.

(((PS)))

I have had a hard time w/ this recently, too, going back and forth from blaming myself to blaming him. THe big difference btw us and our H's - to me - is that we were strong enough to change; we had the willingness and capacity, whereas they don't. PS, that is the key. You're right tnat no one is perfect; what's more important is that a person works to improve him/herself.

I wish you peace and love.

N