Thanks for the encouragement. My H has been in his MLC for over 3 years now, and although there are huge improvements, he still doesn`t think he wants this M. He was supporting me while I earned my degree, now waiting for me to get a decent job, then he`s leaving. So he says.
We get along great, he still has his moments, although they are fewer then before, I learned to walk away and stay calm. I was hoping that since he`s hopefully near the end of his "MLC", I could hang on a little longer. I asked him not to push me out of my house and I will consider a D when I`m financially able to support myself. There is no intimacy between us. He doesn`t seem interested in me.
He thinks he doing the right thing by me by allowing me to remain in my home. He then can walk away with a clear conscience.