Peicing hurts like hell and is harder than...

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Hi Cat, and as always, thanks for the input. It's great that you find time and the will to give solid advice when you've got your own "issues" to deal with. I appreciate it.

I've reviewed my decision, away from the heat of my anger and dissappointment, and I still think it's the right one for now -that is, my D being in AR with my W.

I think there was some miscommunication. My W didn't realize how I felt and how excited I was to have my D come stay with me. She didn't realize I concidered it a solid plan. She didn't know my D and I had started planning our time together.

When I talked to my W last time (some R talk too, by the way) I admitted that communication had been lacking, and I took responsibility for my share of the problem. I also said that when it comes to time with the kids, we both better not make any unilateral decisions and we should be very clear in our communications. I brought up the holidays and we started solidifying plans for them.

I've got lots on my mind, but I don't feel like getting into it now. I'll write later. Busy guy just now.

Thanks again.