Yes, MK, you are right. I shouldn't have answered. I wouldn't be in this predicament if I had just let it go to v-mail. Also, he is the cat's meow. For a month, everyone in MY family was saying I was crazy. They would talk to him and he would say, "Yes, she's under a lot of stress right now, but everything's going to be ok." He never said that I was stressed b/c we had a newborn and he wasn't coming home at night b/c he was with OW and lying to me all the while.
lwb, yes a Normal person would do things differently. He is NOT normal. I don't think he wants the kids for the weekend, and it definitely isn't what's best for them. I think he threw that out because I would have to say no, and then he could make me the bad guy.
Me29 H33 D9 months S2 S9(previous R) Sep 8-19-07 I file 11-5-07 H home (Retro) 2-15-08 "Today is the tomorrow of yesterday." -- S9