Gosh I dunno Morgan. You sound like you both still love each other. You sound more than 50% sure you still love him and he sounds at least 50% he wants to come back. Damn, them's good odds!
Detaching is good as long as you do it before you lose all your love for him. Keep some love points in the love bank or you may fall out of love.
Sorry, for the reminder but I am catching up with your sitch. Um, a year? Geez. Think my H had been having an affair for 4-6? months and I could easily see me still in this same sitch in a year. Time flies when you're having no responsibilities of child rearing. And I thought this affair would fizzle in 3 months and now I see your H is hanging on after 12!
I actually peaked at some of the Self Help books at the book store and right next to DR was aa advice book on dating a man who is getting a divorce! How insulting. The book talked about how loving a man who is seperated feels like having an affair because you have to keep the R a secret and cannot go out in public. please!
Me:38 H:39 MLC M:10 R:23 years D6 S3 Bomb: Easter, 2007 "Every day may not be good, but there's something good in every day."
