Hi MariS, Remember me? Mamabear. I agree with MaryfromAustin. The reason that I haven't been here in over a year is because I have taken the focus off of my H and put it on me. I got a job and give 110% to it. Between taking care of the house, pets, bills, kids and my job I really have no time to focus on what my H is or isn't doing. At the same time I think the stress and pressure has been released from him and he has returned to his old self (about 98%). Will I ever trust him again? Not completely, but I'm ok with that because I am confident in myself. While I love him with all of my heart I know that if he left me I would be ok, 2 years ok I did not feel that way. I felt hopeless and lost but this sitch has changed me. This board has changed me. I no longer feel helpless, I know that I can do anything that I set my mind out to do. We are all fighters, not victims. Remember that people!
