Sorry, CMNM, I didn't see your later question. I was answering your previous post, but you posted at the same time.
What I am saying is that when you say that you are sad at how he sees you, he sees that as needy. And needy is selfish.
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And, is it really obsessing to feel guilty over all of this?
Absolutely. Just change your perspective. AS I said in an earlier post, you need to learn to love yourself.
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Are you just trying to give me a kick in the a$$ to stop feeling sorry for myself and to do something worthwhile?
Exactly.
CMNM, I can see you struggling. You have been coming around for four years. You should be developing a positive outlook on life. You should be developing confidence in yourself. When things are distance, you do fine. But when you see a look towards you by your H, you become less confident. you can do this. You can be happy. I can't tell you that your H will be back. But I know you have to develop a positive outlook in life and with that, you give yourself a better chance to have a better life. I can't guarantee the direction, but I can guarantee the fulfillment you will feel.
