HELLO DARKNESS MY OLD FRIEND

[I_Still_Love_Him]

Goal,

I have to agree with the others.

When it comes to the kids, you should deal with him directly.

Don't get the kids caught in the middle, they will grow to resent you because you won't communicate directly with him.

If you can't talk to him, then text him but do communicate with him w/o getting the kids involved.

You don't need to be cold to go dark.