LO, sending positive thoughts to you. It was going on so well. Do the 48 hour cool down and think. May be it is time for him to move out, whether he likes it or not. If you really know you cannot stand this flip flop anymore, it is time for him to see how life really is with OW and he can decide on his own. Gotta go. Will write later. Take care. HUGSSSSS!!!!!