lonely, we have something in common. My H has mostly refused to move out ("My house too" argument), but yet continued to see and call OW. We have finally gotten so bad that he is moving out, supposedely next weekend. I still want him to live with me, but canNOT live like this anymore. If he wanted to stay, I would only allow that to happen with certain guidelines. And seeing as how he has ignored all my other guidelines, I am only assuming he'll leave.