no to nursing infant. a judge will not even make force that one. no way, no how. seriously, not at that age, they nurse too much. gone for too long.
I am a VERY strong proponent for dad's spending time with their kids. as you can see from my situation, I am very agreeable to H with visitation (as long as ow isn't involved, of course). I think its very important for the kids. but a nursing infant? nope, that would have been a different story. and H wouldn't even have asked about that one.
maybe he could do something special with S2, but its too long for the infant, and you have the perfect excuse on that one...awww, honey, I just can't see how it can work with the baby. but S2 would love to spend x time with you, I know. and definite groundrules here, no OW.
At 5 months my children were still nursing constantly, I didn't start solids until 6-8 months (8 months with the twins). unless you are a pumper who does not nurse regularly, I just don't see how this would work.
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