We really are on about the same time frame. XH's affair started in 10/06. He told me in 11/06 and moved out a week later.

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Our husbands shot that theory all to hell didn't they?
Put mine in that group too. Don't you think this has something to do with the type of person OW is?

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He has refused to move out this whole time which I think has made it worse for me emotionally.
How can he continue to refuse to move out...he thinks it's ok to have OW and a wife?