One year at the end of Sept. is when it started. He told me about it after it was going on for three months. So, I've been living in this he!! for 9 months where I am being blamed for his poor choices. He has refused to move out this whole time which I think has made it worse for me emotionally. I guess I don't detach very well do I?? Well, it sucks for us all no matter how you look at it.
