Next steps.. good question. I've been mulling that over . He said that I've made it very obvious that I want him to stop speaking to the ow and he is not willing to do that.

Sooooo.... am I ready for the big d?? Maybe.. I am that worn out. I think it's time to get out. You're right Hope.. he's dragging me down and I can't live like this anymore.

If I have no rights just because I'm his wife as he says, then why even "act married" or even live in the same house? I guess if I have no rights just because I'm his wife then, I can go out and date whoever I want as well... Does that theory work here??