Out of your control, sweetie. Let it go. Focus on you and your kids. Make your life great.

Her behavior is not about you, so don't make it about you. Let go. Let her spin and figure her life out.

SD

Me: 40
H: 43
H had EA from 2/06-9/06
Bomb 5/06
Piecing since 9/2006
3/2008: Boundary setting
7/2009: Boundary crossing~dropped my own bomb.
8/2010: Marriage finally on track!