tayers, we don't have enough info on what changes you have made or what was missing before to offer too much in the way of helpful advice. however, as a woman whose h started having affairs because he wasn't happy i can give you my point of view. you rejected your w and m when you chose to have affairs instead of going to your w with your concerns and discontent. you can't just say hey honey, i found God, so everythings all right now! you have to beg forgivenss(maybe you have) and tell her what you are willing to do to to make it right with her(again, maybe you have, we don't know your story) i am sure God has forgiven you, but there is lots of work to do before your m can be repaired.
i think if we knew more of what you have tried to win your w back and more of your story we could give you more input here. maybe you should try posting on newcomers, that board is very busy and you may get more responses. lisa
