Quote: I have felt led to give her some space so that God will melt her heart and rekindle the spark we once had.
that is called lovingly distant round here...you seem to know what to do..so then what are you seeking in comming here? not that you are not welcome of course...everyone is welcome here. but if you have made your decision to give her space and let her see that your changes are real..or as you put it "letting god soften her heart". what do you want to hear from people here?
