Listen to Yoyo. She has great advice. She has found her strength and dare I say happiness back by detaching and GALing. She has come a long way in a short period of time. I think that detaching and GALing are the only way to go if your H is still having an A.
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"When life gives you a hundred reasons to cry, show life that you have a thousand reasons to smile."