D & I are home and checked the mail, D's hospital bill came in and its pretty hefty. Perhaps a stalemate for W to stay a little longer if she choose to pay this off rather than moving out and I pay off that bill within 4-6 months. Dont know for sure until W talks about that tonight.

Should I ask W if she would go to a couple of MC sessions while in this stalemate period?

See the W, Listen to the W, but dont Speak back to the W. Bridle your tongue...