Hi CMNM, How are you today? Great that you see what I saw yesterday!! Did you congratulate yourself already?? ! Just wanted to say hi. I just returned from a sculpture class and it's really late overhere...so just a quick hello!
Originally Posted By: CMNM
I don't have hopes of doing anything more than building communication
Why?? I know it is hard to put yourself on the line and it feels safer as to not get hurt but if this is what you want: JUST DO IT! And if to do means getting a bit of hope up. Why not? Maybe if you try to look at it differently. Like how exciting I'm going to build a brand new marriage with the man I love.
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with my STBXH (ugh, I hate to type that),
Then don't!!! It really is surrounded by a negative feeling, as you say so yourself. And everytime you think about it it adds up just a tad resentment to the pile which is already there. This is how I see it. I believe RCR wrote a great post on this once. It was on why she kept calling her husband sweetheart while he was really acting out towards her. I always refer to my H as DH but I'm thinking of calling him a sweeter name. Just to keep the love flowing!!
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