Originally Posted By: LeftInCali
It is all cheeseless tunnels.


Ain't that the truth! I finally realized -- and continue to rediscover, unfortunately -- that I have been wasting my breath with her (and here I thought I was the stubborn one in this R.)


I appreciate the insight, Cali. I just have to find the strength of character to bite my tongue whenever her alien spew comes out -- it is not easy for me, since I have this strong, natural urge to correct falsehoods and misconceptions when I hear them. If I can somehow steer clear of R talks, I'll be fine. Forgiving her (at least within my own mind) is supposed to help.


Me: 49
WAW: 47
S11, S7
Years Married/Together: 17/18
Bomb: 6/15/07
Separation: 7/6/07
D: 4/3/09

Real love is a decision.
Marriage is a commitment.