Stories don't always end

[Concerned_Listener]

Being,
I'm reading a book by Robert Alter, "It's Mostly His Fault." He believes that for a M to make it, the H must acknowledge his responsibility to work on connecting with his W. He states that the W must take a leadership role for holding him accountable, with the goal of making him a better H.

This is not a passive role. Your H is resistant to working on these issues. Is he capable of being a better H? Absolutely.

The first section of the book is addressed to the lonely and frustrated W and what their role is to get their H moving in the right direction, and how to keep him moving.

I encourage you to take a look at it. Maybe he would be willing to read the book. Alter believes that men often need a 2X4 before they can become a good H--first by the W.

CL