Exactly. And I guess I don't know how I come off but I didn't mean to sound like I was coming down on you. But I do agree and that's kinda what I was trying to explain in my posts why I didn't put a foot down so to speak. Cuz as far as I can tell this is still fantasy (marriage, honeymoon, vacations websites, etc.). Still upsets me but I'm working on that too \:\) I really do appreciate your help husband.

H 30 (me)
W 28
Married 9 yrs
2 children
EA found out on 7/5/07
ILYBNILWY 8/25/07
The unexamined life is not worth living -Socrates