It might seem unforgiven to some, but that is my limit, this is as much punishment I can take from his part if something like this were to happen again.
We all have our limit ... doesn't mean we don't forgive, but does mean we no longer wish to try and trust someone who has proven themselves untrustworthy.
Dr. Phil says (I am a fan, but he doesn't have all the answers - no-one does really - but does have some really good advice and tips, even close to DB'ing): "You know you're ready for a divorce when you can walk out the door with no anger, frustration or hurt. Otherwise, you've got unfinished business."
I think there is some validity to this, and something to think about (even for me, in my sitch). Anyway, I understand where you are coming from. I know that if my H does anything like he did, that would it for me.
Me:57 H:52 M:28 Got another lawyer last year and filed. D35,S/D twins28,D22 EA4/04 End? Who knows? "Life is like a mirror. Smile at it and it smiles back at you." — Peace Pilgrim
