back to square -1 or -10000

[cat03]

well, about the $, before I realized I could go with him to drop off the letter I thought it'd be another lie like the NY trip (wasn't work related but a fun trip w/friends and I gave him $$ for it)
Now, I get to get the money order, put her name on it, put it on the envelope with the letter I read that he wrote and watch him slide it under her door.

So, I guess that puts to rest my fear of him using the $ for something else. Then, I didnt' want to give her one more dollar than he owed her, perhaps she wanted to get paid for something else that he should'nt have to pay (I dont' know, and outing? for the beach room she never used but paid for anyways?)
So, those were the 2 reasons why I wasn't sure it was for the car.

But, it will be over... on his end. I told him, that if I ever find out he went to her for ANY reason or he decides to have a girlfriend down the line that that'd be it, I would file myself for divorce, and I will, if it happens again, this is the end of my rope. It might seem unforgiven to some, but that is my limit, this is as much punishment I can take from his part if something like this were to happen again.

Well, here comes tomorrow, my H is changing his # cell again today, I pray this woman decides to leave him alone and not to try to get the # again.

Yea, I should plan something, we haven't gone out in a while. Thanks guys