Just spoke to W on her way to L. She sounds distant...asks me to tell the girls she loves them and misses them. She has school tonight so she won't see them till tomorrow. She then proceeds to tell me about some history presentation that she has next week. Her "partner" texted her earlier today and wants to work on it after class.
AM I REALLY THAT F'N STUPID????
I'm half tempted to call one of my buddies over to watch the girls after they are in bed and go trap this damn thing once and for all.
I sounded unhappy on the phone, and she asked what was wrong and I of course said "nothing".
I asked her what was wrong and she said she was depressed (normal for her) and that nevermind.
You need to find your happy place!
One thing that has always pissed my wife off is when I'm hurt, I get pouty and then I refuse to tell her what's wrong. Don't do that! Either get your head around it and choose to not get upset by it, or just fake it and don't let on you're upset. Being upset and unhappy is only going to drive her away, remember you want to be the happy fun guy she'll want to be with.
