chicki's drama cont/ 3 I'm feeling like the OW ?

[Heimlich]

Chicki, not going to touch some of the recent comments about your H except that he sounds like a child in many ways. I don't want to play with my toy unless someone else wants to play with it, and then they're interested. Dude needs to do some growing up.

Regarding your slut question. Some men, yeah, I'm sure feel that way. For me, my W and I have done a relatively wide range of activity together and I never thought any less of her for it. Matter of fact, the more open she was with me about what she wanted; the happier I was. Personally, any man that thinks less of a woman because she wants to do something sexually that HE asks for and wants (or that she wants for that matter), she does it, and then he calls her a slut for doing it isn't much of a man in my opinion.

Anyway. This and the boob shirt/thong thread are making me feel a little bothered.

BD