Cat03...you have mentioned several times that you hope the money is for a car repair...this makes me think you feel it is for something else...care to share your feelings with me???
You did good not continueing your questioning...and I would look forward to tomorrow...a new start and a new beginning for you and H with OW GONE!...I would even suggest a little outing for the two of you...could be just pie and coffee...just to reconnect and reassure each other of your committment and how OW being "paid off" makes it time for a new start for the two of you...then leave it at that and start chatting about future, fun, kids....etc..
