Thanks,all three of you guys. You're always there fo me like clockwork! BeingMe: CAG and NoHill have followed my saga for almost a year now, so welcome to the distinguished club. Maybe becasue I've been away fro so long, but I'm what I guess is detached to a pretty good degree at this point. I have a lot of things I'm thinking about when I go homw, but that won't be for about 10-11 months, and I've only been away for 8. Maybe T2 was right when he said it will "give us both a chance to step back" and look at things.
W. has always been an "injustice collector". Has never said "sorry" once in 20 years. I said it all the time. I jsut can't stay mad. I told you all the story how she's been angry with another women for about 3 years because it was "silent Sunday" at D13's soccer game to put a leash on unruly parents. One mom cheered for her daughter. W. was managing D's soccer team and told woman it was "silent Sunday" Woman said half-jokingly "Are you the noise police?" W. has been angry since then. continues to be short with woman who's daughter goes tos chool with my D. They're good friends on the same HS soccer team. D 13 is now D15! I'm over stuff in 30 seconds!
I'm REALLY glad you guys are here for me. I get really nothing from home. Kids are busy....people forget you when you're gone.
I'm always amazed that someone can dismantle a family because they're "unhappy" or not "emotionally satisifed" when both of those things sem so easy to fix once you identify it, but too much H2O may be under the bridge. Who knows. A guy here with me has a brother going through the same thing...3 kids... fo what?
Sam questions for the last year......no answers.......an shalah! what can you do? I really feel for my kids.......
Hill: The west out by Ramadi and Fallujah is a model for the way ahead. It used to be the worst place on the face of the earth when you were here.
