I'm going to agree with CAT03 here. Seriously consider what she is saying and do something about it, BEFORE IT'S TOO LATE. I know when we spoke you seem to be in a pretty good mood, but I have read your posts for too long to know things are well. Unfortunately, us guys can only deal with whats in front of our faces. Make it something that must be done, but not something dreaded or negative.
I would say, "hey you have some time off, you need to take me away and let's figure this thing out". No distractions. No negatives. No kids. Make sure it's to a fun place for both of you. Be straight forward with what you need, but in a positive way.
