So she googled "divorecebusters"... then poked around this website for a while in the MLC and Going Dark threads. Then she googled (get this): "how to stop a divorcebusting spouse"
Ohio Mark, That is a hoot!!!!!!! How FUNNY!!!!!
And you are so wise... when you look at it closely DBing isn't necessarily for the marriage (although it's probably the best chance for reconciliation) it's actually for the LBS spouse to help heal, grow, move on, forgive... and if the circumstances go that direction, piece together a broken marriage...
There is no arriving, ever. It is all a continual becoming.
