Here are my thoughts. Go somewhere nice that has nothing to do with the past. You don't want to come on too strong just yet. It may be too early to get really sentimental. She should appreciate being wined and dined though. Perhaps try a new restaurant that everyone raves about or it can be somewhere you have gone before.
Life's challenges are not supposed to paralyze you, they're supposed to help you discover who you are. -- Bernice Johnson Reagon